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Hello! Welcome to Cam Orbits.

My name is Ray, and my pronouns are they/them.

I’ve never been much for the hustle.

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I burnt out a few times trying to find my way in this capitalism-centered and oppressive reality where we are other, not integrated. And the disconnect grows wider every day. For a long time I really struggled to find ways to stay afloat around the only sane thing in this situation, which was my ever deteriorating mental health.

I fucked up a lot, and a lot fucked me up, and in 2011 I was literally like “I should go on a personal retreat to get some much needed solitude and work on my relationship with my self- oh! I’ll invite that dude I was talking to online to meet me there. Genius.” So I ran off to North Carolina to meet my new boyfriend, and four months later we got married. So anyway.

When I found the online adult entertainment industry and joined our community of sex workers, this really changed the entire trajectory of my life.

I got on cam for the first time in May 2013. By July same year I was quitting my day job. I had discovered I could actually support myself.

Dude ran off. I got around to divorcing him eventually.

From 2013-2020 I continued to work as a webcam model and dabbled in a few related ventures. I made tons of pornographic content. I made connections. I mailed my panties to America. I learned how to build a website. I took lots of breaks and sometimes I changed my entire identity and started over. I played a lot of Sims. I started blogging. I sold my first webcam modeling blog, U Camgirl. I moved out West and saved up for a year to buy my first condo. Then I sold my second blog, O Camgirl, and bought a bigger condo.

I started Cam Orbits with the intention to do things differently this time around. And that’s the reason it has a cool name I actually put thought into.

Cam Orbits intends to be a voice for social justice, anti-oppression, and the continuing evolution of the adult entertainment industry.

I would like to bring sex workers together to work on personal and professional development, support & networking, and collaborative projects that aim to create more accessibility, resources and opportunities for intersecting marginalized communities.

I would like to publish educational, practical, impactful and inspiring content from a variety of perspectives around the industry.

I would like to build a supportive and collaborative workspace to empower sex workers who would like to make porn for change. (Get it? I’m sorry, you deserve better.)

I would like to find solutions to move the adult entertainment industry forward in the context of the world today, and to use our unique platform to reach our highest potential.

Let’s not remain complicit to the ever deteriorating status quo. Let’s make porn for change, because we deserve better. And the world deserves better.

Please subscribe or bookmark for updates. If you wish to engage or need any help, please help yourself to any comment box or contact form around the site. I will do my best to keep up with inquiries in a timely fashion, keeping in mind that time is an illusion.

I’m around.

Thanks & Happy Fall, updated Aug 2021.


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  1. Ray, I REALLY appreciate you writing this blog, thank you so much.
    I have started considering being a cam girl a couple of months ago and sometimes I still think about it. But I have never done anything of the such before, and the thought of some things that might happen still scare me, so I am taking my time researching and finding what I feel comfortable doing or not.
    I am going to stick around here for sure. I already learned a lot.
    I love the way you write; it’s very inspiring.

    Thank you very much for sharing your experience with us. 🙂
    Have a wonderful week,

    1. Hi Barbara,
      So glad you found Cam Orbits! Lots of content coming up for prospective cam girls like yourself. 🙂 If you think I can help with anything in the meantime please feel free to reach out.
      Thanks so much for dropping by and taking the time to comment. I appreciate it! All the best.

  2. It is refreshing to see that you want to help people grow and knowledge is truly the way to do so. I wish you all the best in your goals!

  3. What a great message! We are all human, no matter what profession we are in. I look forward to learning more since you seem to have a great perspective on the adult industry. Keep up the good work!

  4. Hi Ray,
    I loved going through your blogs. Well done to you, Like you said, “brave” I think you have big Cahoona’s for engaging such a sensitive topic.
    Not the easiest subject considering societies viewpoints.
    I’m sure your posts will enlighten and inspire a lot of people and maybe even educate a lot of haters. Thank you for bringing this out into the public eye. Good luck with all future endeavors.
    Kind regards,

  5. It’s great you have found a new home and congratulations on selling your business even though it did not turn out the way you expected. Your experience will definitely be put to good use helping others.

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